RECOMMENDED BOOKS

Les indispensables : mind blowing ones

Self pleasuring / Masturbation :

• Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving by Betty Dodson

Women & Sex : 

• Come as you are by Emily Nagoski
• Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire by Lori Brotto
• Sex Points: Reclaim Your Sex Life with the Revolutionary Multi-point System by Dr Bat Sheva
• Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And How to Get It by Laurie Mintz
• Girls & Sex: Navigating the Complicated New Landscape by Peggy Orenstein

Men & Sex :

• For the Love of Men: From Toxic to a More Mindful Masculinity by Liz Plank
• She comes first by Ian Kerner
• The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners by Charlie Glickman, Aislinn Emirzian, Carol Queen 
• Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Masculinity by Peggy Orenstein

Relationships :

• Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic by Esther Perel
• So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair Our Love Lives by Ian Kerner
• Queer sex by Juno Roche
• Orgasms for Two: the Joy of Partnersex by Betty Dodson
• The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love by Hardy
• Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino
• The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships by Neil Strauss
• The state of affairs by Esther Perel
• Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationship
• Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

Disabilities :

• The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness by Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg

Consent :

• What Does Consent Look Like? – helpingsurvivors.org/what-consent-looks-like/

Kinky : 

• Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

Future of sex :

• Sextech Revolution: The Future of Sexual Wellness by Andrea Barrica

Gender Biais :

• Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men by Caroline Criado Perez

Science of sex :

• The XX Brain by Lisa Mosconi
• The Science of Orgasm by Barry R. Komisaruk, Carlos Beyer-Flores, Beverly Whipple
• Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex by Mary Roach

For Sex Therapists :

• New Directions in Sex Therapy: Innovations and Alternatives by Peggy J. Kleinplatz
• The body keeps the score by Bessel Van Der Kolk
• The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy: Engaging the Rhythm of Regulation by Deb Dana